By our reporter

Its no longer news that in the past months Zari Hassan’s relationship with hubby Diamond Platnumz has been on the rocks after the Tanzanian bongo flava star confessed to have cheated in the socialite to the extent of siring a baby boy with model Hamisa Mobetto.

The confession pushed Zari on the wall that she threatened to call it a quit. Fortunately she made up with her man after accepting the endlessly apologies from Diamond.

Now the mother of five tips you on relationship;

Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal.

You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be.

Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out.

TRUST ME. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone who isn’t holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure. Straight up.